the 'parang kayo pero hindi' stage
LOVE WITHOUT COMMITMENT
"parang kyo pero hindi stage"
uhmm..Why do they keep their selves together? Why do they hold hands whenever they stroll? Why are they spending too much time on the phone with each other?Sila kaya?I'm sure you have heard some of these questions.. or if ever nangyare na cguro sa inyo.. ung tipong wala kyong masagot sa mga tanong na ito.. you have an answer pero laging ewan ko.. " parang kame pero hindi"... this "parang kyo pro hindi stage" or more on known as the MU or mutual understanding. What is it?It is a phase where the persons involved are more than friends but not quite lovers. There might be an agreement or a mutual understanding. One or both of them may have admitted their feelings pero wala talagang verbal agreement.They just let their gestures do the talking for them.Just like in the stories, MU can happen at different stages for different reason. It can happen after a break up or before a new relationship.For a time, it can be fun pero i'm sure you know na may kapalit lahat ng happenings.FIRST >> YOU CANT ASK HIM/HER TO COMMIT since walang kayong relationship d ka pwede mag demand ng commitment from your partner. Ano ba kayo?? You will always be uncertain about your role in his life. D mo pwedeng i-expect na nandyan sya lagi for you or call you every time and kung na feel mo na nagselos ka sa iba you just have to keep it to yourself... again ANO KA BA NYA PARA MAGSELOS??SECOND >>YOU CAN'T BE SURE OF HIS/HER TRUE FEELINGS kahit na sobrang in love ka pa sa knya d ka parin sure kung ganun din na feel nya sayo. You may be just assuming too much.. even if you are dying to tell him you love him you can't.. because you're not sure if he'll like it.. baka mapahiya ka lang dba??!!.. this stage will always make you wonder where you are in the relationship or kung meron nga ba tlaga??I know na MU relationships are really cool kse you can enjoy things lovers do without commitment pero in return ang sakit din. ksi pano kung masyado ka nang maging attached sa kanya? ung tipong laki ng asa mo na magiging kayo tlga.. na hindi ka na nagentertain ng iba dahil sa kanya.. only to find out na he/she is seeing other person na pala? so if your having this "parang kayo pero hindi" relationship the only way to figure what is the real score is to talk. if ever na nothing's happen sa inyo it means na wala talga.. and that's the sign na u have to move on..
ok??? oh Ano? nkA reLaTe din keio noh?? s**t noH!?? hehe:)
-got that one from friendster.. hehe.. relate kayo.. >_<
"parang kyo pero hindi stage"
uhmm..Why do they keep their selves together? Why do they hold hands whenever they stroll? Why are they spending too much time on the phone with each other?Sila kaya?I'm sure you have heard some of these questions.. or if ever nangyare na cguro sa inyo.. ung tipong wala kyong masagot sa mga tanong na ito.. you have an answer pero laging ewan ko.. " parang kame pero hindi"... this "parang kyo pro hindi stage" or more on known as the MU or mutual understanding. What is it?It is a phase where the persons involved are more than friends but not quite lovers. There might be an agreement or a mutual understanding. One or both of them may have admitted their feelings pero wala talagang verbal agreement.They just let their gestures do the talking for them.Just like in the stories, MU can happen at different stages for different reason. It can happen after a break up or before a new relationship.For a time, it can be fun pero i'm sure you know na may kapalit lahat ng happenings.FIRST >> YOU CANT ASK HIM/HER TO COMMIT since walang kayong relationship d ka pwede mag demand ng commitment from your partner. Ano ba kayo?? You will always be uncertain about your role in his life. D mo pwedeng i-expect na nandyan sya lagi for you or call you every time and kung na feel mo na nagselos ka sa iba you just have to keep it to yourself... again ANO KA BA NYA PARA MAGSELOS??SECOND >>YOU CAN'T BE SURE OF HIS/HER TRUE FEELINGS kahit na sobrang in love ka pa sa knya d ka parin sure kung ganun din na feel nya sayo. You may be just assuming too much.. even if you are dying to tell him you love him you can't.. because you're not sure if he'll like it.. baka mapahiya ka lang dba??!!.. this stage will always make you wonder where you are in the relationship or kung meron nga ba tlaga??I know na MU relationships are really cool kse you can enjoy things lovers do without commitment pero in return ang sakit din. ksi pano kung masyado ka nang maging attached sa kanya? ung tipong laki ng asa mo na magiging kayo tlga.. na hindi ka na nagentertain ng iba dahil sa kanya.. only to find out na he/she is seeing other person na pala? so if your having this "parang kayo pero hindi" relationship the only way to figure what is the real score is to talk. if ever na nothing's happen sa inyo it means na wala talga.. and that's the sign na u have to move on..
ok??? oh Ano? nkA reLaTe din keio noh?? s**t noH!?? hehe:)
-got that one from friendster.. hehe.. relate kayo.. >_<
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